Five: The best number!

Despite the fact that I am extremely OCD and have to find balance and symmetry in everything that I do (make sure that all of my tattoos are symmetrical, check repeatedly if things are locked and turned off), my favorite number is a prime number: the number 5.

Usually, people side with lucky 13 or 7 but 5 is just another thing that makes me unique, seeing as I know no one else that loves #5 like me. I mean, in my random lists there are 5 things, reasons, tips, and/or advice that I give. It just fits. So here are 5 reasons why the number 5 is the best!

1. There are 5 elements of Nature (or better known by my generation as Captain Planet Planeteers):

Earth, Wind, Water, Fire, and HE<3RT. All things that provide balance in my life and most likely yours.

2. There are 5 written vowels in the English alphabet. It’s a strange reason to love 5 but I love writing so this happens to be cool to me. Side note: this stands as a partial reason because these five vowels are made up of four letters. Odd, I know.

3. The human species has 5 senses. (Hearing, sight, touch, smell, and taste- in case you don’t know) All five of these senses are a blessing and I couldn’t live without even one of them.

4. One of my favorite fruits: Apple Why? Not only does the word contain 5 letters but Apples also have 5 seeds (or seed cavities), 5 petals in an apple plant, and usually blossom in clusters of 5. Don’t believe my Apple and the number five correlation? Check out this: http://tiny.cc/q9fyvw

5. And lastly, but of course not least, I love the number 5 is more than because we have 5 fingers on each hand. More than because we have 5 toes on each foot. Taking a quote from a very wise person, H.- P. Blavatsky, “5 is the spirit of life and human love.” If you want to know a more profound explanation check out this link: http://tiny.cc/mngyvw. Otherwise, believe me when I assure you the #5 train is where the party is at!

ALCOHOLIC SIDE NOTE: Cinco de Mayo is on May 5 or 5/5. And I mean obviously I support Mexican Independence and an excess of tequila drinking and you should too! So cheers to the number 5, Mexican Independence, and the spirit of life and human love. ❤

Can we get some romance, please!?!

It seems like time and time again I am thinking to myself, conversing with girlfriends, or dreaming about the ideal romantic man. But let me tell ya, if you don’t already know: They are far and few!

Here’s some completely over the top romance thanks to good ole Nicholas Sparks because Zak Efron is beautiful…

While I think I may have snagged a charming and potentially romantic man (not tooting my own horn but toot toot), please understand: It’s not their fault. Men just don’t get it.

So, let’s stop blaming the men. Women can be romantic too, so if he ain’t bringing the ‘wine and dine,’ please realize that it is a two-way street. Here are 5 ways for you to bring some ‘oh-la-la’ to the relationship. And maybe, just maybe, he will take some of your actions and put some pep in his romantical step.

1. Think about his hobbies and play into them. Women have a better chance of understanding or at least playing along with men’s hobbies instead of vice-versa. (Don’t ever take a man shopping with you, especially if he is a ‘man’s man.’ TRUST ME!) If he likes sports, try to like them too. Learn a little about the game, whatever it is, and let him know that you are interested, even if you aren’t. If he likes to work out, get him to help you get into shape. If he likes guns… buy him bullets. Believe me, I thought I was just being a nice person, but I swear you would have thought he climaxed when he opened the bag. (Tid bit: Pawn shops carry bullets that are hard to come by nowadays. Who knew!?!)

2. Give him a back rub/massage. Not only is this a sensual activity and could lead to something else (wink wink) but men love for a woman to pamper them. It’s strange because not all (or many) men understand that  (PAMPERING) is exactly what women want too, but as I said- it’s a two-way street. (Massage Tip: Don’t waste your time or money with edible massage oil unless you are looking for potential food poisoning… just saying. Go with lotion or baby oil. Less expensive and more straightforward)

3. Four letter word: C O O K! The saying, “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach,” is SERIOUSLY legit! If you can’t cook, ya better learn, because he needs to eat. Surprise him with dinner or his favorite dessert that you made with LOVE and I can almost bet he will give you something sweet. 😉

4. The Crappy Guy Flick. I am having trouble submitting myself to this one, but I admit, I am a work in progress too. Men are simple and don’t need all of the ‘hoopla’ to be happy. So, give him like 2 hours of your time and watch a movie that HE wants to watch. Whether it is James Bond (GAG), or some sci-fi (YUCK) flick, or just a movie that you KNOW is gonna suck, just give him the decency to know that YOU are willing to watch what he wants SOMETIMES, to ensure that maybe he will watch the next tearjerker to be released for YOU! Next Nicholas Sparks movie? WE ARE THERE! (Note to self: If you fall asleep during the movie, it doesn’t count. He wants you to suffer and talk about it later. Lesson learned)

5. Surprise him with plans that YOU made. Nothing is going to happen unless you put it into motion so plan a weekend activity that YOU know is romantic and something that YOU will enjoy! First of all, you planned everything so the hard part that he usually has trouble with is O V E R and secondly, it’s guaranteed to be perfect because YOU planned it. If you’re anything like me, you over plan so you know that all of your bases are covered. Plus, if it’s something relaxing and during the weekend, he will be happy too- especially because you are happy! ❤

I planned a romantic outing for this weekend that I cannot wait to go on it with him. I would tell ya the deets, but I don’t want to risk ruining the surprise. I will say, that while I love a handsome prince charming to plan a romantic activity for me, it was really fun and exciting for me to plan it for US.

IMPORTANT: If he ever does catch the hint and provides you with ROMANCE- whether it is an activity, a present, a thoughtful ANYTHING, you have to praise him immensely with kisses, cuddles, “favors,” WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO so that he understands how much it means to you and that you greatly appreciate it so he knows that he needs to continue on that path. 😉 Hope this helps ladies! Smootchies! ❤

Where are you weekend?

Do you get to work on Monday and think, “I can’t wait for the weekend?”

Getting through the work week can be painful but I have found a few tricks that help make Mondays a little brighter and the work hours flow smoother.  Here are my 6 tips to help you get to the weekend:

1. Exercise before work: You may think it is impossible to get your butt out of bed even a second earlier than usual, but I can tell you from personal experience- it is WORTH IT! Try waking up an hour early once a week and hitting the gym or going for a run, especially on a Monday, and you will have more energy that you ever imagined. I am lucky to have the ability to run on lunch, but with the weather warming up so quickly, it is seeming to become an unbearable task. Kicking your butt into action before you get into the office will not only get your bod in better shape, but your mind in shape too! TRUST ME!

2. Make weekend plans on Monday: Planning a great (and much needed) weekend trip or activity during the beginning of the work week will help you have something to look forward to while the week days drag on, and we all know they will! I know this may sound backwards, because you would think that if you are super excited about doing something the hours will drag on more, but solidifying awesome weekend plan creates an anticipation that will just amplify your weekend. I am a planner so if I bring an idea up to a friend or my charming during the week, I can make great plans into awesome plans but continuing to think about how I can make them better with little details. Try it on for size.

3. Email friends: Not everyone can email clients all day long without feeling burned out. It’s nice to throw in a personal, while appropriate, email every once in a while. I love seeing my girlfriends funny emails or sharing great articles. It helps keep my mind sharp and gives me a good laugh when I am taking things a little too seriously. I don’t know about you, but I don’t get to see friends and family as much as I would like, so this communication, even if strictly text, helps me know that I am not alone in this crazy stressful work world.

4. TAKE LUNCH: This is the hardest for me. I get in a rhythm of work and I forget to stop working and breathe. Actually leaving your desk for lunch and getting out of the office gives your brain an hour to breathe and refresh. Take my word: GET AWAY FROM YOUR DESK FOR LUNCH! Thank me later. 🙂

5. Go out 1 time during week: Whether it’s for dinner, or a drink, or both, “after-work-outings” during the week are essential to maintain a social life. Besides, if you don’t keep your social life fresh, whatever will you do for the weekends? 😉

6. Make a weekly tradition: I recently joined a Kick Ball league with some girlfriends that meets once a week. At first I thought it would complicate my work week because the games can run a little late sometimes but honestly, it has just given me another cool thing to talk about at work and given me the opportunity to meet new people. I may be horrible at kick ball but I am great with making friends. 🙂 Making a weekly tradition helps create balance and routine outside of your workplace. And besides, your weekly tradition could be another great way to network and get your name out there!

We are all looking for clever ways to get to the weekend, so take these tips and survive the work week! Cosmopolitan.com has some great tips that I live by. Check them out by following this link —> Survive the Work Week!